[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/neobvinujte-jedinacky-z-egoismu-ne-vzdy-je-tomu-tak\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/neobvinujte-jedinacky-z-egoismu-ne-vzdy-je-tomu-tak\/","headline":"Neobvi\u0148ujte jedin\u00e1\u010dky z egoismu! Ne v\u017edy je tomu tak.","name":"Neobvi\u0148ujte jedin\u00e1\u010dky z egoismu! Ne v\u017edy je tomu tak.","description":"\u010casto b\u00fdvaj\u00ed jedin\u00e1\u010dci zpodob\u0148ov\u00e1ni jako d\u011bti z\u00a0bohat\u00fdch rodin. Vezm\u011bme si p\u0159\u00edklad z\u00a0Harryho Pottera a jeho bratrance jm\u00e9nem Dudley. Jak on byl h\u00fd\u010dkan\u00fdm potomkem, z\u00a0n\u011bho ta rozmazlenost vylo\u017een\u011b bila. Ale chov\u00e1 se ka\u017ed\u00fd samostatn\u00fd jedinec takov\u00fdmhle zp\u016fsobem? Doopravdy ne. V\u00a0prv\u00e9 \u0159\u00e1d\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na v\u00fdchov\u011b. Jak se k\u00a0n\u011bmu rodi\u010de chovali, co mu dovolovali, zda se ho neust\u00e1le zast\u00e1vali. V\u00a0druh\u00e9 \u0159ad\u011b jsou genetick\u00e9 dispozice a psychika. Ono to v\u0161e souvis\u00ed s\u00a0t\u00edm p\u0159\u00edstupem rodi\u010d\u016f....","datePublished":"2019-08-16","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/383247cd769f7ac317a5bcda943ec48a3c79d996598ae4564ec21a0e178126d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/383247cd769f7ac317a5bcda943ec48a3c79d996598ae4564ec21a0e178126d1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"hellp.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a353931_w3098_t1568482495.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a353931_w3098_t1568482495.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/neobvinujte-jedinacky-z-egoismu-ne-vzdy-je-tomu-tak\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":496,"articleBody":"\u010casto b\u00fdvaj\u00ed jedin\u00e1\u010dci zpodob\u0148ov\u00e1ni jako d\u011bti z\u00a0bohat\u00fdch rodin. Vezm\u011bme si p\u0159\u00edklad z\u00a0Harryho Pottera a jeho bratrance jm\u00e9nem Dudley. Jak on byl h\u00fd\u010dkan\u00fdm potomkem, z\u00a0n\u011bho ta rozmazlenost vylo\u017een\u011b bila. Ale chov\u00e1 se ka\u017ed\u00fd samostatn\u00fd jedinec takov\u00fdmhle zp\u016fsobem?\tDoopravdy ne. V\u00a0prv\u00e9 \u0159\u00e1d\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na v\u00fdchov\u011b. Jak se k\u00a0n\u011bmu rodi\u010de chovali, co mu dovolovali, zda se ho neust\u00e1le zast\u00e1vali. V\u00a0druh\u00e9 \u0159ad\u011b jsou genetick\u00e9 dispozice a psychika. Ono to v\u0161e souvis\u00ed s\u00a0t\u00edm p\u0159\u00edstupem rodi\u010d\u016f.\t\tNa sv\u011bt\u011b existuj\u00ed takov\u00e9 dva extr\u00e9my. Jeden jsme ji\u017e zm\u00ednili, tud\u00ed\u017e extr\u00e9m rozmazlovac\u00ed a za druh\u00fd se pova\u017euje striktn\u00ed. Projevuje se to nezast\u00e1n\u00edm se vlastn\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte, nekupov\u00e1n\u00edm ka\u017ed\u00e9 cht\u011bn\u00e9 v\u011bci. Do zna\u010dn\u00e9 m\u00edry je to dobr\u00fd zp\u016fsob v\u00fdchovy. Nesm\u00ed se to ale p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bt.\tJestli\u017ee se rodi\u010d nezastane jednou sv\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho d\u00edt\u011bte, d\u00e1 se to pochopit. M\u016f\u017ee to m\u00edt jednoduch\u00e9 opodstatn\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee on rozbil to aut\u00ed\u010dko. Kdy\u017e nastane p\u0159\u00edpad, kdy si rodi\u010d nen\u00ed jist\u00fd, kdo za tu danou situaci m\u016f\u017ee, tak by m\u011bl rad\u011bji ml\u010det a netrestat sv\u00e9 d\u00edtko! Takov\u00e9to traumata m\u016f\u017eou zp\u016fsobit prvn\u00ed r\u00e1nu do d\u011btsk\u00e9 psychiky. P\u0159\u00edkladem je n\u00e1stup do \u0161koly, kdy se d\u00edt\u011b boj\u00ed p\u0159ihl\u00e1sit, i kdy\u017e v\u00ed tu spr\u00e1vnou odpov\u011b\u010f. P\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou je strach pr\u00e1v\u011b z\u00a0chybn\u00e9ho \u00fasudku, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zp\u016fsoben\u00fd \u0161patn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edstupem jeho rodi\u010d\u016f.\tZtr\u00e1ta sebev\u011bdom\u00ed je druh\u00fdm aspektem. Nejhor\u0161\u00ed na tom je, \u017ee v\u0161echno se v\u0161\u00edm souvis\u00ed, je to takov\u00fd bludn\u00fd kruh. Rodi\u010d se nezastane sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte a to se z\u00a0toho d\u016fvodu boj\u00ed cokoliv ud\u011blat. P\u0159estane si v\u011b\u0159it, neust\u00e1le p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o sv\u00fdch \u010dinech. Klade si ot\u00e1zky, zda to ud\u011blal spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Ob\u010das p\u0159ijdou v\u00fd\u010ditky sv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee to asi ne\u0159ekl t\u00edm nejvhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm zp\u016fsobem a nevykonal v\u011bci spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem.\t\tJe t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 si pro takov\u00e9 lidi uv\u011bdomit, kde stoj\u00ed p\u0159\u00ed\u010dina jejich odta\u017eitosti, jejich n\u00edzk\u00e9ho ega. Mnoh\u00fdm pom\u016f\u017ee klinick\u00fd psycholog, ale co ti ostatn\u00ed? Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee je to taky nemus\u00ed nijak tr\u00e1pit a m\u016f\u017eou \u017e\u00edt spokojen\u00fd \u017eivot. Jen\u017ee pak nastane probl\u00e9m, kdy\u017e lid\u00e9 okolo V\u00e1s zjist\u00ed, jak tenkou sko\u0159\u00e1pku m\u00e1te. Za\u010dnou toho vyu\u017e\u00edvat. Pak p\u0159ijde poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, kritika a V\u00e1m se rozsv\u00edt\u00ed, \u017ee byste m\u011bli p\u00e1trat po p\u0159\u00ed\u010din\u011b v\u0161ech t\u011bch neduh\u016f. Po chv\u00edli V\u00e1m dojde, \u017ee tyto \u0161patnosti ve V\u00e1s zanechalo d\u011btstv\u00ed. 4.2\/5 - (8 votes) "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Neobvi\u0148ujte jedin\u00e1\u010dky z egoismu! Ne v\u017edy je tomu tak.","item":"https:\/\/www.hellp.cz\/neobvinujte-jedinacky-z-egoismu-ne-vzdy-je-tomu-tak\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]